Hatred is a two – way sword. The more you inch from ‘dislike’ to ‘loathing’ to ‘hatred’ for a person, more pressure you exert on the sword to inch further into the person. And as you put pressure, more the sword digs deeper into your hand – from the edge pointing at you. The sword can never hurt the other person more than you because the pain is felt first in your hands!
So, chose the people you hate, wisely!
The thing with beautiful memories is, you keep remembering them. When you’re idle, when you’re reminiscizing or when you’re going through a bad phase.
The trouble with this is, in bad times, you somehow want to roll back time, or, make situations so that you can relive those memories. Rolling back time is impossible, but making situations, creating circumstances, is a lot in our hands.
So, we keep working or dreaming of creating those situations so we can be in the same setup as the memory. N then miraculously the memory will re – happen! But Alas! That would never be.
And it leads to our doom! An eternal sadness of having lost in our endeavors.
And what makes matters worse is, while we were busy aspiring for that recreation of old memories, we lose out the opportunities of enjoying the good times that happened all this while.
It’s something like this – ” While you were busy looking out for a rainbow to appear, someone was longingly waiting for you to turn around and look at him like that , coz you are his personal rainbow”.